By Bob DeMarco
Alzheimer's Reading Room
For example, what kinds of activities are taking place? Are there lots of "dull" periods? Periods where nothing much is going on. Or, are there lots of activities to fill up the day?
I am also wondering how rich is the environment in spirit? Are you happy and conveying happiness to the person with Alzheimer's? Are you sad? Are you feeling mostly stressed?
Most important, are your thoughts mostly positive? Mostly negative? Or somewhere in between?
When I started as an Alzheimer's caregiver I can say the environment was not rich in activity, and certainly not rich in spirit. This place could best be described as "dull".
Want to guess what Dotty looked like and sounded like? Dull. I remember dull. It hurts. It hurts your heart and it hurts your spirit.
Many of you know, one night I had my epiphany. I decided we would start living our life.
So here I sit seven years later thinking to myself, how rich is your environment?
I can say this. The greater the activity, the greater the socialization, the brighter the light, the better your day. I learned this slowly over time.
One thing I want to say. It is my belief you can change things and change them for the better with your Alzheimer's patient. But, this is not something that happens in a day or a week. It happens slowly over time.
The greater the effort you make, the greater the result. This is my belief.
Some people marvel that Dotty talks, reads, and does the crossword puzzle. Well she didn't for more than a year, and that was my fault. Now, this is the way we start everyday. We talk, look at the paper, sometimes Dotty reads to me, we interact -- socialize. This is the way we start our day.
For the longest time, Dotty started the day angry, mad, and with an awful look on her face.
Now, she smiles and starts talking immediately. We get off to a happy start most days.
We have our new found friend, Harvey. Harvey entertains both Dotty and me. Dotty says Harvey has a good voice when he sings.
I am not the only person that knows that the greater the number of activities, the better and more lively the response you will get from a person that Alzheimer's.
The richer the environment in activity, the richer the environment in spirit, the richer the life of the Alzheimer's caregiver.
You might give this some thought.
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Bob DeMarco is the Founder of the Alzheimer's Reading Room and an Alzheimer's caregiver. The blog contains more than 2,680 articles with more than 512,100 links on the Internet. Bob lives in Delray Beach, FL.
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