Married couples affected by Alzheimer's disease often suffer from feelings of isolation, depression and estrangement.
When a spouse is cognitively impaired, marital communication is impaired.
As Alzheimer’s disease (AD) progresses, language problems increase in frequency – such as searching for the right word, repeating the same word, asking the same question over and over, or substituting one word for another.
As a result of the decline in communication, married couples affected by Alzheimer's disease suffer isolation, depression and estrangement. Limited research has existed on communication in couples affected by AD and existing research primarily focuses on identifying communication deficits – until now.
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Patterns of communication that help couples sustain engagement in their relationships.
1. Communication patterns included news of the day, which provides caregivers and spouses with normalcy and serenity by talking about the activities of daily life;
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2. Sharing memories, where caregivers attempt to reminisce with their spouses about memories of people and past events;
3. Storytelling, where caregivers persevere in telling a detailed story although the conversation seemed like a monologue with no verbal participation from the spouses;
4. Delighting in the unexpected, where caregivers are overjoyed when their spouses contributed more to the conversation than expected.
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The researchers also observed that caregivers accepted a spouse’s version of the story, valuing the relationship more than being right and therefore refrained from interrupting or interjecting.
“It was evident that caregiving spouses bore most of the responsibility in maintaining the caring relationship, but there was evidence that the spouse affected by Alzheimer’s disease actively participated as well. In one conversation, maintaining eye contact with the spouse was the only obvious evidence of engagement. In another interaction, singing familiar songs provided an avenue for active involvement between partners," said Williams.
The largest proportion of AD family caregivers are spouses.
“These caring ways of relating are of value because they provide information about what is possible in marital relationships affected by Alzheimer’s disease. Illuminating ways that couples demonstrate caring can be a source of strength to those who feel hopeless, discouraged and ready to give up, and can empower nurses to reach out to couples.”
- In the study conducted at the Christine E. Lynn College of Nursing at Florida Atlantic University, researchers looked at how couples affected by Alzheimer's disease maintained their relationships, over the course of many years of marriage, and uncovered patterns of communication that help couples sustain engagement in their relationships.
Findings from the study were published in the The International Journal of Human Caring in an article titled “Maintaining Caring Relationships in Spouses Affected by Alzheimer’s Disease.”
“There is a knowledge gap regarding how couples affected by Alzheimer’s disease manage their relationship to sustain hope, connection, meaning and engagement. Instead of focusing our study on what wasn't working in their relationships, we looked at patterns that support intimacy. There is a pressing need for research on maintaining a caring relationship despite progressive decline as it may lead to interventions to foster constructive communication.” ~ Christine L. Williams
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1. In the study, Williams used Jean Watson’s caritas framework, which values the human relationship as the central focus and provides the appropriate framework to study caregiver-spouse interactions.
2. Members of Williams’ research team visited 15 couples in their home once a week for 10 weeks. Couples had long-term marriages with an average of 47 years, were middle-income and generally well educated. The mean age for caregivers was 77 and 80 for spouses with AD.
3. Most of the caregivers were female (68.8 percent) and reported that they had performed the role of caregiver for an average of four years.Couples were asked to converse on a topic of their choice for 10 minutes, which were recorded once the researcher left the room.
Using this method, researchers were able to observe naturally occurring everyday conversations, which involved both verbal and nonverbal behavior and non-linguistic aspects of the conversation such as pauses.
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Thirty conversations were analyzed with qualitative methods.
Three overall themes of spousal care were identified:
1. engaging with compassion;
2. patiently reaching out;
3. and trusting in the existence of deep attachment.
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Christine L. Williams, DNSc, author of the publication and professor and director of the Ph.D. in Nursing Program in FAU’s College of Nursing, is a board-certified clinical nurse specialist in adult psychiatric mental health nursing, and designed a first-of-its-kind program to study caregiver-spouse interactions.
Sources of information:
Florida Atlantic University (FAU)
FAU’s College of Nursing is internationally known for its commitment to nursing as a discipline focused on nurturing the wholeness of persons and the environment through Caring. For more information, visit www.nursing.fau.edu.
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Compassion a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate their suffering.
Trust the firm belief in the reliability and truth of someone. Trustworthy a person you can rely on; a person you have confidence in.
Empathy the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
Purpose the reason for which something is done or for which something exists. Having as one's intention or objective.
Caregiver is a person who gives help and protection to someone who is sick or in need.
Emotional super glue a bond that holds two people together and rises to a level that is so powerful, so all encompassing, that it can only be described in this way - you are bonded together by emotional super glue.
Coping requires us to make our own conscious effort to solve personal and interpersonal problems. This allows us to minimize stress, reduce conflict, and to better understand our situation.
Dementia care is the art of looking after and providing for the needs of a person living with Alzheimer's disease or a related dementia.
Dependability the quality of being able to be relied upon.
Patience the capacity to accept delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset.
Strength someone that gives one strength or is a source of encouragement and sustenance.
Flexibility the willingness to change or compromise.